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#48541 - 12/04/11 11:31 AM Re: expectations [Re: AntEater]
Girlie1980 Girlie1980 veteran Registered: 09/23/09 Posts: 1356	LOL My husband is the one with his own room. The kids sleep in the same room, each of them on a large mattress on the floor. I float between all 3 beds.
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#48542 - 12/04/11 01:22 PM Re: expectations [Re: Girlie1980]
AntEater AntEater Pooh-Bah Registered: 02/06/08 Posts: 1950 Loc: UK	My feeling was that I didn't want to be driven out of my own bed by the arrival of kids. Certainly when I was young, I didn't sleep in my parents room and wasn't about to see them in mine. For the first couple of weeks, we'd take it in turns to be "minding" the kids, I'd do the first part of the night, usually working late with the baby sleeping in a carrier on my front. I could happily work on a computer like that letting mum sleep. Then I'd sleep for a couple of hours on a sofa in the "nursery" with the baby on top of me. When they needed their feed in the 2->3 in the morning time frame I'd take them in to MrsAE, who would have been asleep since their last feed. Our eldest hated the little Moses basket, but we then discovered by accident that he was happy in the big cot. On a particularly bad night I put him down in there as a safe place while I went to wash my hands after changing nappies. Only to come back and find it happily sleeping. From then on he slept in the nursery in his cot and we could sleep together again back in our room. I don't think as a parent you have any problem hearing your children if they need you, I would also wake if they started to cry even in the other room. Oh boy am I glad to be out of that stage. Somehow we seem to have moved away from the erotic. _________________________ Anteater, or thanks to CG "Monsieur Manger de Tante" $\:D$
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#48548 - 12/09/11 09:05 AM Re: expectations [Re: AntEater]
Anonymous Anonymous Unregistered	Part of my original question is how long you should or want him to last ? He is very well endowed but seems to cum quick during oral and most of the time during intercourse but once he does the first time then he can go for a while.
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#48549 - 12/09/11 10:41 AM Re: expectations [Re: Anonymous]
Girlie1980 Girlie1980 veteran Registered: 09/23/09 Posts: 1356	Good question. My friend's girlfriend complains he takes too long with oral. Like 3-5 minutes. (He barely lasts a minute with vaginal sex.) To me that seems short. But then again, I'm not trying to get it over with. I focus on both of us enjoying the experience, and sometimes that will drag it out.
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#48550 - 12/09/11 11:37 AM Re: expectations [Re: Anonymous]
Anonymous Anonymous Unregistered	Originally Posted By: Anonymous Part of my original question is how long you should or want him to last ? He is very well endowed but seems to cum quick during oral and most of the time during intercourse but once he does the first time then he can go for a while. Quite a subjective question. I really think it depends on the mood, and the amount of foreplay. Is it just fucking or is it love making? Given your descriptive question, I suspect the male subject may be a young lad. If he has a hair trigger (so to speak), the more he practices - the more control he will achieve, generally speaking. Since he has it him to come again, the partner should not become concerned with the quickness of round one. Embrace his vigor and stamina. To share a more intimate opinion, when my guy does a good job of foreplay, he doesn't have to last and last. He can follow with a good hard and fast fuck and I will achieve my climax equally as fast. On the other hand if foreplay has been skipped then a slow developed rhythm, assuming he can last, with some changes in technique or positions will result in a reasonably long session, which I may require to get off. In either case it can take too long. I do recall when he was younger and able to ejaculate repeatedly in the same session. When I tire, it is no longer pleasurable. There is no finite time line for most of us, just the achievement of the desired orgasm.
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#48563 - 12/21/11 11:21 AM Re: expectations [Re: Anonymous]
pmpkty pmpkty veteran Registered: 03/24/08 Posts: 1296 Loc: Florida	I've experienced where the guy wants to get the first one out of the way, he always called that the nervous/excited cum. He's so nervous about pleasing me and excited to have sex that he shoots off too fast but after that we could go for an hour or more. I personally don't care how long the first time is as long as he can get it up to go a second time and I'm not left out in the cold. If not then we have a problem. _________________________ Monique
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#48565 - 12/25/11 08:45 AM Re: expectations [Re: AntEater]
Mechknight73 Mechknight73 addict Registered: 01/05/07 Posts: 566 Loc: Perth, Western Australia	The little buggers seem to know instinctively about conception lol. Buy two pairs of earmuffs and keep going lol _________________________ If life is a highway, meet one of its towtrucks
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#48567 - 12/25/11 10:26 AM Re: expectations [Re: Mechknight73]
AntEater AntEater Pooh-Bah Registered: 02/06/08 Posts: 1950 Loc: UK	I can't see LadyAE keeping a straight face with me wearing ear muffs. The best way to deaden sound is of course to have a pair of silk stocking adorned thighs clamped around your ears, but that isn't too easy while actually penetrating the love of your life. Edited by AntEater (12/25/11 10:27 AM) Edit Reason: typos, typos well actually typo, which probably means there are still some lurking there _________________________ Anteater, or thanks to CG "Monsieur Manger de Tante" $\:D$
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#48633 - 01/13/12 03:23 AM Re: expectations [Re: pmpkty]
Alex_Mann Alex_Mann enthusiast Registered: 03/01/08 Posts: 211 Loc: Los Angeles CA	Originally Posted By: pmpkty I personally don't care how long the first time is as long as he can get it up to go a second time and I'm not left out in the cold. If not then we have a problem. I tend to agree with what Monique has to say here. Now that I am in my 50s I like to believe I have developed a good amount of staying power. But when i was younger I would often cum quickly the first time, and once the woman realized I had not lost interest and was willing to continue other ways until I had regained my erection, it was not a problem. I believe that so long as the guy doesn't just cum, roll over and go to sleep, it should not be a problem. Thanks, Alex _________________________ Alex ---Well if you must have an obsession, then it might as well be sex.--
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