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#48526 - 11/30/11 03:49 PM expectations
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How long is to long and how fast is to fast ? For both oral and love making. Also do you like to make him cum with oral or just as a warm up per say ?
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#48528 - 12/01/11 02:35 AM Re: expectations [Re: Anonymous]
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Just my personal opinion, but I have always regarded oral sex as an "entree" rather than a main course. I do enjoy it, but much prefer to give as much pleasure as I get. I don't mind a few minutes of oral to "start me up" lol.

How fast and how slow is always a subjective thing. If you have all the time in the world, it's unnecessary to set a limit. Only physical exhaustion or pain might determine things in that situation. If you have to get up for work/finish your lunch break/finish before parents, housemates or other intruders arrive, then a quickie is necessary. It also depends on his endurance. If you do things to him that get him off really well, then it might be too quick for you.
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#48530 - 12/01/11 07:17 PM Re: expectations [Re: Mechknight73]
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Mech, you mean "appetizer"?

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I like doing it either as the main event or as just a component. I leave it up to him to decide which it will be. I proceed until he stops me.

I look forward to the kids getting older and less needy, and us having more time. We're not getting enough of anything these days, and oral sex becomes a lower priority.

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#48531 - 12/02/11 10:25 AM Re: expectations [Re: Girlie1980]
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 Originally Posted By: Girlie1980
Mech, you mean "appetizer"?


I think this is something has doesn't translate from English into American too well. Entrée can mean a number of things, in the US its normally the main dish of a meal, but over here it wouldn't be. My WordWeb dictionary lists

1) Something that provides access (to get in or get out)
2) The act of entering
( "she made a graceful entrée into the ballroom" )
3) The principal dish of a meal
4) The right to enter
5) Course served between the first and main course of a meal; a starter

My guess is that in Australian he's using it as (5) or possibly (1) rather than as (3)

 Originally Posted By: Girlie1980

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I like doing it either as the main event or as just a component. I leave it up to him to decide which it will be. I proceed until he stops me.

I look forward to the kids getting older and less needy, and us having more time. We're not getting enough of anything these days, and oral sex becomes a lower priority.


I've never had the feelings from oral performed on me that could make it the main event. No one has ever tried long enough, although that is at least partially my fault.

In terms of me performing oral on a woman, well I like it as a starter, the main course, a snack in the middle of the main course and even as a dessert. Hell I love it as casual kiss!

It is rare for me ever to have had sex with any woman when I've not given her at least some oral first. I generally prefer to have had her cum before I even attempt to move on to penetration. There is something out of this world about sliding your cock into a hot wet pussy which is just starting to come down from the height of orgasm. These days it is far more likely that we'll have oral sex than the full penetrative variety. While on the build up to my own orgasm I love the idea of going down on her just after cuming inside of her pussy, better yet of her sitting on my face and feeding me our joint emissions. Normally though the desire goes away as soon as I cum. We had a thread about this issue a number of years ago. If I'm staying horny enough & hard enough to be able to just keep going, then it is fantastic.
I also love to pull out and kiss her pussy a bit more mid sex.
Sometimes she been getting off on some toy and she'll pull that out of herself and get me to kiss her pussy. It always feels a little different then, usually cooler but usually very excited.
Purrrrrrr

As to things getting easier as the kids get a little older, I'm not sure it ever does get easier, it just gets different. They get less demanding on your time perhaps, but the time available diminishes at the same rate, so, IMHO, you end up no better off.

Perhaps I'll be lucky tomorrow night, the elder beasty will be at a friends so we'll have much more evening to ourselves.
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#48532 - 12/02/11 11:05 AM Re: expectations [Re: AntEater]
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I'd be content with being able to spend at least half an hour without expecting one of them to wake up and look for me. The baby is teething and sleeping badly, and some nights I don't get to put her down at all.
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#48533 - 12/02/11 02:31 PM Re: expectations [Re: AntEater]
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It would depend on whom you ask about the word entree. In Australian restaurants it's generally regarded as the opening meal while you're waiting for the main course. Probably getting ahead of myself though. I like the whole process,from stripping each other off through to the end. Porn movies that "skip to the main course" annoy me for that very reason. I find that you build desire easier if you do all the bits in sequence
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#48534 - 12/02/11 02:37 PM Re: expectations [Re: Girlie1980]
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Jeff Foxworthy couldn't have put it better: "If you're a parent of young children, when you get the urge to have sex, body emits a hormone that makes your kids want a drink of water." In the case of toddlers and infants, just attention will do, but they seem to "know" when you're horny.
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#48535 - 12/02/11 03:18 PM Re: expectations [Re: Mechknight73]
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Kids seem to always know when they are not the center of attention. The moment their caregivers focus on a rival sibling, a neglected spouse, or even (especially) themselves, the rugrats instinctively take steps.

Why are babies . . . Human or otherwise . . . So cute?

Because no amount of species self preservation or personal genetic lineage could make us put up with them!

Would you change a dirty diaper, be a consistent target for projectile vomit, or lose any chance of thirty minutes of uninterrupted sleep for months on end otherwise?

And it's self perpetuating!

Only the cutest, craftiest, and most 'innocently' conniving critters survive to propigate! We are preprogrammed as we get older to be even more suceptible to the cuteness gene.

How do you explain grandparents of both sexes carrying large purses and billfolds full of almost identical photos? Or leaving large sums and estates instead of more properly spending their life long acquired loot on themselves?

I think it's the kids who give off a pheromone that reduces their parents I.Q.

Not the other way around!

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#48537 - 12/02/11 05:00 PM Re: expectations [Re: Sextified]
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I'm not susceptible to the cuteness. I only put up with them because I know you have to go through this stage to get to the good ones.

We mothers are supposed to have a miraculous tool to pacify babies. Breastfeeding. Apparently my children are immune to that. Everyone else I know can lay in bed with their baby latched on and sleep as much as they need. In fact, everything can be fixed with a little boob. Nurse while they are getting their shots and they don't cry. Upset about something? Give them some milk. Scrape a knee?... But not my kids. To them it is just food. I'm missing the main resource mothers have.

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#48540 - 12/03/11 07:47 AM Re: expectations [Re: Girlie1980]
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I always thought it was a natural reflex designed to protect their inheritance, or to not get it watered down with too many siblings. Both of ours seemed to be able to know when I was starting to get closer and then start screaming.
I always insisted they slept in another room from the time they were a few weeks old.
So when we did try and get friendly there was never a risk of them looking at us. But I found that they didn't seem to ever start to make a noise from their room when I was pleasuring MrsAE, the female orgasm isn't a risk to the child, so she'd be allowed her pleasure, but as soon as I would get close the scream would start.
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