#47385 - 01/23/11 12:47 PM
Re: Body piercings - Good or Bad - Male or Female
[Re: Cindy]
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Cindy,
If I might ask, what cup size were you before, and what did you end up choosing?
I knew one very fit petite woman who was gorgeous, but deeply unsatisfied with her breasts. I saw her dance at a strip club finally. For the first time in my life I actually agreed that, at least for her, they were a good idea.
She had worked so hard on improving her body, that her breasts actually got worse. Her self esteem was devastated. But I urged her to make sure she got a pair that fit the expected shape of the rest of her body, and to not go too large.
I knew two redheads, also in the business, that wanted to get the surgery.
One girl disappeared for a while, fucked her boyfriend enough to get him to pay for them, and then came back to work. Before they were small, matched her nipples, and seemed to fit her personality.
She made a business decision to go larger.
Her hips were rather straight, and seeing her larger up top was always a little off to me when I saw her back on main stage. But the work was first class, when viewed from the waist up. She was happy with them, but I personally missed the older pair.
The other stripper had been a business woman at a large corporation. I was shocked, and a bit angry, when she said she wanted to have her breasts enlarged.
They matched her curves perfectly. The were full, didn't sag and were already very sensitive. She loved having them touched and played with. At work, that wasn't always possible, so she did the touching herself for other people to see.
Eventually she did get them, and I thought the results were a bit off. Technically I knew they would get better with time, but they imparted the wrong shape. I at least, knew they were fakes, and wouldn't have been fooled if she'd already had them done when I first met her.
She wouldn't answer the sensitivity question, wish led me to believe she might have lost some.
In my mind, only the woman has the right to choose to add fake breasts and accept the risks that process involves. The first stripper said it was the most painful thing she had ever done. I tried to break the news, gently, that she might have to have further surgeries later in life.
She hadn't had kids yet, wasn't fully matured in her 'final' natural silhouette, and at some point in her life they would look much less than perfect.
She wasn't too happy to finally have that point sink home, and remember more clearly the warnings her doctor had given her.
A few girls I know had breast reduction surgeries. For the exact opposite reasons. They were tired of the kinds of attention their natural form got them. Also the back pain they experienced was getting to a critical stage.
If I can get really personal, where did your doctor choose to place the incisions, and did you choose the silicone or saline versions?
But in my mind, if YOU like them, it was probably a good decision.
I have always held the opinion that the women that have a bad medical experience, or had their jerk of a husband/boyfriend urge them on too fast, always later regretted them and wished they could have their old breasts back.
Removing them doesn't mean that makes that so, or immediately eliminate any of the problems, much less returns you to exactly the way you were before.
Also there is sometimes another kind of trade off. If you get better/more attention from the general public with your clothes on . . . but are somehow less happy when you are naked with your lovers . . . how would that make you feel?
I saw one girl on stage, whom I dated for a short while rather platonically, that I had never considered having had implants. I was shocked when another older dancer told me they were fakes.
She hadn't been blessed with the size, shape and fullness that the rest of her wonderful body led you to believe she SHOULD have had. The final results, with silicone, were flawless.
I could have never imagined her with any less a wonderful total package, at least physically.
(However, on the inside, she was every bit a bitch to the rest of the people outside of her selfish little world. My friend had warned me about that before we went out on our first date. She was always nice to me, and her friends, but treated the rest of the 'little peons" of the world like trash. Didn't want to even be on the same planet, much less married to her, when her karma finally rebounded on her! The bill was just going to be that huge!)
So, Cindy . . .
I'll let the others ask for the before and after photos, and just be very happy with knowing how you feel about the total experience thru your own words! Please? Got to continue my education somehow!
Would you be willing to start a new thread in this section about that? Seems an appropriate place and topic for that kind of discussion for a change.
I'd be interested in hearing from the guys that have had significant others with implants.
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#47393 - 01/23/11 02:35 PM
Re: Body piercings - Good or Bad - Male or Female
[Re: Cindy]
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Cindy,
Kinda glad you live a little farther away from me! And sad, too! You certainly would be much too tempting for me to resist!
One of my first serious girl friend's was my best buddy's twin sister. All of about 4' 10" tall full grown. Very lithe and petite with short black curls. Also a very intelligent artist.
I was so sorry to move so far south away from her!
It's hearing about women like you though, that gives me a little more faith that the right person is still out there for me!
Thanks so much for sharing!
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[ I really thought some braver perv would have chimed in by now, asking for some before and after pics. Sheesh! This place really is slow so far this year. It's a sad, sad day, when an otherwise upstanding gentleman has to reveal just how horny and interested he is, just because our usual suspects won't do his dirty work for him.  Oops! Did I just type that 'outloud'? Is this thing still on? ]
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