#46522 - 07/19/10 01:14 PM
Re: Smooth?
[Re: Lee_R]
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Sextified
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I think it depends on the guy, and whether he should or not, on his partner. What's good for the goose is good for the gander!
If he is always wanting you to shave but is unwilling to even try it once himself? I'd tell him there has been a strike by the barber's and hairstylists union and you won't cross picket lines.
If he is unwilling to at least help trim the bushes, then I think it's perfectly ok to tell him to stay off of your lawn, too!
Personally I hate the way I look totally clean shaven. Maybe when I finally lose that last twenty pounds and get a tan, I might feel different. For some people, me included, no amount of care or repeatitive grooming stops the itching or the bumps.
If I had a partner that absolutely insisted on it, I might try really hard one more time. But until little junior down there gets really serious and excited, I look enough like a prepubescent boy.
Fully erect, I can see the appeal that both some men and women have for the look. For close up photography it's almost a must!
One girl I really loved to hang around said she loved the way I smelled down there. She insisted that pubic hairs on both men and women had a purpose. She herself kept everything neat and able to hide under a skimpy bikini bottom.
She said the hairs trapped the good manly/womanly scents and pheremones.
Who was I to argue with an expert who always smelled so nice down there!
I do a lot of judicious 'man-scaping' though. I shave my balls and any stray hairs on the shaft itself. If you want to look a bit larger and increase the sensations, that might be all you need to do.
If I didn't do at least that much I'd look like a member of ZZ-Top down there!
Sextified
PS. The only guy WITHOUT a beard in that band's last name IS Beard!
Edited by Sextified (07/19/10 01:20 PM)
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#46526 - 07/19/10 02:26 PM
Re: Smooth?
[Re: Sextified]
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Girlie1980
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What's good for the goose is good for the gander!
I'm not big on symmetry and ideas of fairness and keeping score, but you already knew that. I think you can easily make yourself nuts and very angry if you are trying to make everything fit an idea of fair.
I think you should take each action in itself. If you want your partner smooth, that is one discussion to have. If your partner wants you smooth, that is a separate discussion to have.
For some people, me included, no amount of care or repeatitive grooming stops the itching or the bumps.
Have you ever tried any of the creams for that? I haven't, but I am curious.
Actually, I found that the bumps are worse if i've been wearing panties, and better if I was without.
But until little junior down there gets really serious and excited, I look enough like a prepubescent boy.
I can understand that concern, in some cases. I don't like men who look like little boys. Some guys have so little in the way of masculine characteristics that they should think twice before removing any. But, Sextified, I've seen pics of you enough that I don't think that is an issue for you. There is no doubt that you are a man.
One of the things I like about my husband is that he has very masculine characteristics. In his case, leaving his pubic hair alone suits him very well. But if he were to shave it, there is no way that would make him look insufficiently masculine. It just might look out of place with the rest of him. (Though that could have the effect of drawing attention to the area. Not that he doesn't get plenty of attention already.)
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#46531 - 07/19/10 04:53 PM
Re: Smooth?
[Re: Girlie1980]
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Bitemeplease
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For some people, me included, no amount of care or repeatitive grooming stops the itching or the bumps. Have you ever tried any of the creams for that? I haven't, but I am curious. Actually, I found that the bumps are worse if i've been wearing panties, and better if I was without.
Creams still leve you with bumps - basically little spots as the hair tries to push through your skin again and it's made worse if after shaving you have something snug over the skin (and that works on where ever on your body you shave.
I've tried everything from creams, waxing (unless you like pain don't even bother), shaving and I've exfoliated every day to get rid of the dead skin cells to give the hair less to push through but no matter what I try I get covered in bumps and spots and it's not pretty - even though I personally prefer my pussy bare I just can't do it as I get maybe a few hours of lovely smooth delicious skin before the itching and the bumps start to appear.
It's all about personal skin, my friend can shave and have silky smooth skin for ages, but not me I get shaving rashes on my inner thighs, my bikini line, sometimes my under arms and even my chin (my PCOS). So if you don't normally get rashes or spots after shaving then you should be fine.
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#46536 - 07/19/10 10:03 PM
Re: Smooth?
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Girlie1980
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I don't mind the pain of waxing (or tweezing, which i find much less painful, since you are only pulling out one hair at a time, but it takes much longer). However, I still get the same problem when the hairs grow back in. But instead of all growing back in at the same time, causing a day of itchy agony, it is staggered over weeks.
This time of year I do the nonstop-exfoliating method on my legs and get by ok. But the danger over time is that your skin will get thicker (calloused) due to the constant abrasion.
I want to get laser hair removal for my legs. We've put aside the money, but it only works in certain hormonal conditions (ie not pregnant). So, I'll probably have to wait a while. I was afraid to try it while breastfeeding because of the hormones. I would hate to spent that kind of money on 4 treatments and then have it not work properly because of hormones. He only stopped nursing about 5 months ago. By the time I realized "hey, I can do it now" it was too close to our intended time of conceiving again. The 4 treatments need to be 6 weeks apart, in order to catch every hair at least once in the right stage of growth.
For some reason, I never have any trouble with my underarms.
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