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#45357 - 03/10/10 09:54 AM New to sex
Anonymous
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I am new to this forum and kind of new to sex. My friend suggested I check this out and to be honest I was a little freaked out by some of the stuff I read and by how excited it makes me.

I am 19 and only started touching myself about a year ago. I have only kissed maybe 2 guys and one didn't include frenching so maybe that doesn't count. That's my total sexual experience. Up until now I never was that interested in trying sex.

Now that I have started reading stories like the ones here (I also found another site too) I am spending a lot of time thinking about sex, touching myself, and I am pretty sure I am having orgasms. I don't talk about this to anyone because I am a little embarassed.

So, I don't have a regular boyfriend, I do occasionally date. I really want to try some things like oral and regular f*ing but I don't want to get a reputation or catch any disease from a random guy. Any suggestions for how to get my first experiences?

Sorry this is so long.
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#45358 - 03/10/10 10:14 AM Re: New to sex [Re: Anonymous]
Girlie1980 Online content
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That's not a long post. Not a short one either, but definitely not too long. And it is very to-the-point and informative. Don't stress yourself about your post. \:\)

My suggestion is to play it by ear. If you date, eventually you'll feel like you are really connecting with someone, and you will want to feel closer. And he'll feel it too. And it will just happen naturally. You'll want to touch each other. And then you'll want more.

In the mean time, you sound like you're doing everything fine. You sound like a normal, healthy person. You have a life full of pleasant sexual experiences ahead of you. Enjoy!
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#45372 - 03/11/10 03:24 PM Re: New to sex [Re: Girlie1980]
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You sound a lot like me actually. I was a virgin until I was 19. I'd never had an interest in sex before then. I would write about sex but never really cared about having sex. I didn't wait to fall in love and have sex, my first time was with one of my good friends. I agree with what girlie said and let it happen naturally but not all of us do that. I didn't.

I think what you need to decide is how much does this mean to you. Do you care about how and who and when? If the answer is yes then you should wait. I only cared about who. I don't regret it but it wasn't all bells and whistles like so many people say. The one thing I can say is if there is the possibility that you will regret it then don't do it. Nothing wrong with waiting
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