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Life changes, and changes people too.
In a few days I will be offcially approaching the big 50, that means I am nearly done with the 40's. Shit!
You know I thought life would slow down, and that work would get easier, and I would have more time to nail my beautiful wife. She thought so too.
Damnit all to hell, life is not really like that. I am at the top of my game with my business, I go to work between 6 and 7 am every week day, I go home for lunch and the occasional nooner, back to work and then home by 5:30 - 6:00 five days a week.
I do have hobbies, but they are mostly on the back burner until work slows down, which I predict will be when I retire, when ever that happens.
My wife and I spend a lot of time together, if you can say that given my work hours.
We still have sex several times per week, but it wasn't long ago that it was a couple times a day.
Has my interest in sex changed, absolutely. My solution, if my wife wants sex, she has to go for it more than she used too. What I mean by that, is that she comes onto me, like rolls me over and mouonts me, or goes down to perform a good BJ but cuts it short for her own satisfaction. I would say that our sexual activity has changed from me being the agressor 100% of the time to more of a 50 / 50 situation. I could likely go for weeks without it, but I couldn't let my woman be without for that long. I know she has needs too, and if you don't fullfil them she might find some who will.
So what you are going through is maybe a stretch on normal, but not uncommon. If you want to please your wife, then tell her that she will need to take the initiative more often, and even if you are not in the mood when she is, you have to learn to compromise. ;-)
H. Guy
Edited by Hunterguy (03/05/10 01:20 PM)
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