#44970 - 02/03/10 10:01 AM
Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing
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Hunterguy
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Nadianna,
Some times its hard ;-) to be patient. Next Month? How will you survive?
Regarding what to wear, I once heard a man say, "Every guy wants his girl to be a class act when out on a date, and a slut in bed." Or something like that. Personally, I must agree.
I love it when we are out on the town, and my wife is turning heads. It turns me on, and makes her feel even sexier that she is, making it easy to be the second part to that saying when we get home.
You don't want to expose too much, save something for later, confident and classy turns guys on too! Of course I can't speak for other men, but it sure works for me.
Cheers,
HG
Edited by Hunterguy (02/03/10 11:47 AM)
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#44974 - 02/03/10 07:31 PM
Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing
[Re: Hunterguy]
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nadiana223
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oh honey, im a lamb in the field and a tiger in the bed. trust, im sweet as a kitten, but once i get behind closed doors, im a sex goddess.
I'll make sure to send EVERYONE pics. :-) Everything will be done, from the hair to the nails to the makeup to the jewerly to the dress. Got more curves than a highway and more sex appeal than a strawberry dripping with chocolate.
We talked about it some more today. I asked him did he really want ME, as in the real me, and not just the sexual part. He says he respects me as a wonderful friend and as a beautiful lady, but give him the chance and he'll show me what making love really means. Today,we worked together on a project, his eyes were on me, and mines on him. He playfully took his hands and squeezed my waist. I rubbed his ears, and I swear, he growled like a beast. Leave it to me to bring the beast our of this sweet man. LOL. While we were sitting together, he was looking between my legs (I let him feel the kitty through my pants yesterday, man almost fainted, LOL), and I had to back away. At work, however, we keep a professional stance, so no one knows. However, everyone swears we're already a couple. One woman asked me today, is that your husband. He looked at me and said, "Yes, isn't that right, baby?" and flashed his smile. I swear, my panties melted. But, honestly, we're just GOOD FRIENDS who share everything and are crazy together, with mad sexual tension.
**If yall are lucky, I MIGHT even get pics of me in the throes of passion. However, I doubt that, since I'll be much too occupied to do that standing still.**
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#44983 - 02/04/10 12:27 PM
Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing
[Re: Girlie1980]
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nadiana223
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That's right. It's ok. I'm verrryyy careful with this one. He's legit. I know he's employed (he works with me), he holds his own, AND he coughs up the cash. He's not an immature boy who's looking for a cheap thrill. He's honest and he's a committed person. NO, I don't want a relationship and neither does he. Yes, I do realize that there's a chance that one of us may fall for the other. But, for right now, I'm living for the moment. I can't shut down and become an Ice Queen just because a sorry sarcastic asshole and a confused religious baffoon broke my heart. We only have a few chances at happiness in this life. If life is a bull, then I'm grabbing its ass by the horns AND balls, and I'm gonna ride it till I'm too tired to care.
The difference between this man and all the others? I didn't JUMP into bed with this one right away. We actually got to KNOW one another, what we like and don't like, what our interests are, etc.He's not a liar; he's respectful, smart and mature. I learned a hard lesson: a man's going to respect you like you respect yourself. This one respects me and sees my value. And the greatest part is that we can be friends AND have casual, good sex without being committed to one another. I'm ok with that. He's ok with that. I can't sit around waiting for Mr. Right; he might not come. Who's to say this one is not the one? I dunno. But I can't hate life and I can't shut myself down because I've been hurt. That's not the type of person I am.
P.S. I just realized something: I've known him for SEVEN months; that's the longest I've ever waited to sleep with a man. Normally, give me two weeks to a month. Ha ha ha. I don't believe it. SMH I actually waited for this one. And trust, it's gonna be worth the wait. I can tell.
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