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#44960 - 02/02/10 08:25 PM Need Advice for a Night of Romancing
nadiana223 nadiana223 addict Registered: 05/16/08 Posts: 661 Loc: United States	Hello, all. Well, I did it. I finally made my sexy ass coworker break his willpower over me. Basically, what that means is that he's let go of his fears and he wants to make love to me. As in fuck me. As in give me my first orgasm (he's very set on the last one, sweet thing. Smile). He wants to be the one to break this thing after three months of waiting and watching. And who better to do it with than someone you've come to grow and love and respect. I can trust him to get these double stuff cookies and not blab to the whole world. The man thinks the world of me, he makes his own money, owns his own house, car, respectful, is intelligent and funny as hell, sexy, down to earth, and is putting two very handsome young men (those are his boys yall) through college. He's always wanted me; he thinks I'm FINE and sexy and voluptuous and the things that he described as to what he's gonna do to my body makes my pussy just talk Lawdy. I know he's not just using me for sex; otherwise, he would've hit this a long time ago and would have taken advantage of me. So, here's the deal: We're basically going to go on a date first. (He insists, I agreed. He's very persistant, this one). Next month (my call on the date), he wants to pick me up, we'll spend a day together, and when the night falls, the freaks will come out. LOL. We are friends, and we've both discussed and agreed that we're going to continue to be friends. Just with benefits. This man is an older sexier man, as in 45. As in he's gonna get this young sweet pussy and he's going to take his TIME getting it. Whoo whee. LOL. Anways, the advice that I need is basically simple. I've never been on a date and I've never just made love to a man. Like take my time. Always sex. So, how can I relax? What do I wear? Nothing? Sexy lingerie? A trenchcoat and red pumps? What sexual techniques do you all recommend (I plan to BLOW HIS MIND!!). What do I wear on the first date? Jesus I'm sweating again. LOL. Yes, I know to be careful yall. I've been hurt too many times not to be careful. i'm not crazy or dumb or desperate. I've waitied for him and he's waited for me. I did a background check on him. he's clear of foolishness, diseases, anything. Edited by nadiana223 (02/02/10 08:33 PM) Edit Reason: Added another paragraph. _________________________ It was not into my ear you whispered but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed but my soul
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#44961 - 02/02/10 08:33 PM Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing [Re: nadiana223]
Rock Rock old hand Registered: 02/05/08 Posts: 1096	I would say wear something sexy and nice to accentuate that fine body of yours. Relax and have fun. and remember that I am still single. ^_* _________________________ "Your body might be a virgin but your mind is a whore." Quote originally stated to me by Nadi.
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#44962 - 02/02/10 08:36 PM Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing [Re: Rock]
nadiana223 nadiana223 addict Registered: 05/16/08 Posts: 661 Loc: United States	Aww rock, how sweet hun. how the heck are ya, anyways?? I know. He has the relaxed part down pack. It's me that needs to tell my pussy and body to calm down. LOL. _________________________ It was not into my ear you whispered but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed but my soul
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#44963 - 02/02/10 09:07 PM Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing [Re: nadiana223]
nadiana223 nadiana223 addict Registered: 05/16/08 Posts: 661 Loc: United States	personally, he says he don't give a damn whether or not I wear lingerie. We're gonna be in for a night of hot and heavy lovemaking anways, so the lingerie is coming off--using his teeth. god, I love being a sex kitten. LOL. _________________________ It was not into my ear you whispered but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed but my soul
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#44964 - 02/02/10 09:20 PM Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing [Re: nadiana223]
Girlie1980 Girlie1980 veteran Registered: 09/23/09 Posts: 1321	Let him worry about everything. He is the one taking care of you. That's his job. Blow his mind by being enthusiastic and curious and open. ---- If I were dressing for this occasion, I would wear some classy underwear and a classy dress. Simple and elegant. Not too much eye candy. Just a clean and well-put-together look.
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#44965 - 02/02/10 09:37 PM Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing [Re: nadiana223]
Sextified Sextified enthusiast Registered: 08/18/08 Posts: 367	nadianna223, I agree with Girlie, let him take the lead for the initial seduction. He probably has plans already well thought out. If he's hesitant for some reason, giving him some nice lingerie to remove is a good idea. But let him take the first shot at everything this time. DO, however, have a plan or three on what to do for round two of the night and beyond. After you both cool down a bit, whether round two happens or not, show your appreciation by teasing as if there were. If things are going well . . . save most of your 'big ideas' for when you have to be in charge and the aggressor. Hopefully this will become a regular thing for you. And it gets your mojo fully back. Then when you are happy and confident again who knows what will happen! Sextified
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#44966 - 02/02/10 11:27 PM Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing [Re: Sextified]
nadiana223 nadiana223 addict Registered: 05/16/08 Posts: 661 Loc: United States	I actually really have no choice but to let him take charge. He only asked me the date cause of my schedule. But he INSISTS on handling everything. He wants me to let a man be n charge for once. He guarantees I will get attended to and he won't hurt me. _________________________ It was not into my ear you whispered but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed but my soul
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#44967 - 02/03/10 07:55 AM Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing [Re: nadiana223]
Rock Rock old hand Registered: 02/05/08 Posts: 1096	But what if you want to be hurt Nadi? he he ^_* I am doing alright. Been busy with work. Single. =/ lookin forward to a superbowl party with friends. _________________________ "Your body might be a virgin but your mind is a whore." Quote originally stated to me by Nadi.
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#44968 - 02/03/10 09:08 AM Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing [Re: Rock]
Girlie1980 Girlie1980 veteran Registered: 09/23/09 Posts: 1321	Nadiana, sound perfect to me.
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#44969 - 02/03/10 09:59 AM Re: Need Advice for a Night of Romancing [Re: Rock]
nadiana223 nadiana223 addict Registered: 05/16/08 Posts: 661 Loc: United States	Originally Posted By: Rock But what if you want to be hurt Nadi? he he ^_* I am doing alright. Been busy with work. Single. =/ lookin forward to a superbowl party with friends. Oh, Rock. Keep your chin up darling. :-) He asked me if I like pain. I said yes. Something tells me he's not an ordinary man. Blindfold and clothpins, anyone? Plus, he's not making it easier that he's packing pipe and his tongue is thicker than--I don't know what. I may have to take off my next work day. LOL. _________________________ It was not into my ear you whispered but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed but my soul
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