#44703 - 01/13/10 12:54 PM
Re: H E A D
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Girlie1980
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I don't remember my first time receiving. I don't think I had any expectations, so I can't really compare the reality to the imagination. Whenever I have expectations, they are usually more about how *I* will feel, not how *it* will feel. Not a matter of a precise physical sensation, but an overall enjoyment.
I much more clearly remember the first time I had a cock in my mouth. That made a much bigger impression on me. Also, the first time he came in my mouth. I didn't love doing it at that point, but I sort of understood that when I got past the awkward stage I would grow to love it.
Is my partner good at it? I would say he is, from a technical standpoint. But he just doesn't love doing it the way I love sucking on his cock. I enjoy every minute of it, but he is so focused on getting to the end -- the goal. And that just stresses me out.
To begin with, I'm not good at just sitting back and being taken care of. So, couple that with feeling like it is such an imposition, and I'd rather be doing a lot of other things with our time. It still finds a place in our love-life in the form of foreplay. He does it for a little while because it gets me soaking wet very fast.
I don't think he thinks he is good at it. I bet that contributes a lot to the issue. Maybe one day he'll get to the other side of that and love it too. Maybe not.
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#44707 - 01/13/10 11:08 PM
Re: H E A D
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nadiana223
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My first time giving head was when I was 15 years old. I was a born natural. My first time receiving head was with a woman; I was 18, she didn't do a very good job in my opinion. The second time I received head was from a man; let's just say to this day, he has been the only man who made me cum by eating. Needless to say, the relationship was abusive, so we only stayed together for a year. He wasn't the first man whose cum I swallowed, but he said that I was the firsst woman who sucked him for over an hour and didn't get tired and who took him all (i like to deep throat and swallow; it's my specialty that only a special select few know about). When he came I not only swallowed, but the man got weak in the knees. Imagining a 5-4 woman making a 6-4 man get weak in the knees.
I think the reason why I'm good at giving blowjobs is because I LOVE giving blow jobs. Nothing gives me greater pleasure than having a grown man shiver and curse and grab my hair while I'm giving him head. I think that I actually enjoy giving blowjobs more than having the sex itself; it somehow symbolizes intimacy in a way, closeness if you will (and not just some random act with a stranger, which by the way, I have NEVER done). each one of my men can tell you that I never commplained, always granted their request, and they all gave me five stars. One man called me Superhead, another one asked me if I had any teeth, and one was gripping the bedsheets so hard his knuckles were almost white. LOL. I've also given oral sex to three women and they all loved it. Two of them I gave multiple orgasms each time I made love to them. No one taught me these things. They came naturally because I loved doing them; I enjoyed pleasing who I was with.
As far as me receiving oral sex from a man, all of my candidates said that they loved eating me; it was like eating a fresh piece of fruit (except this one guy; but he ate me like a day before my cycle was due and said that it tasted and smelled terrible; I blame that on a chemical imbalance in my body; I was a little embarrased but thanked him for his honesty). I have yet to get my body to relax so that I can actually cum while a man is actulaly eating me. My current friend (he's trying to get with me, poor thing BIG SMILE) has exceptional pussy eating skills; he ate me out for almost an hour once and i still didn't cum; I told him it wasn't him, it was me. I like him though, and i thinkthat once I get relaxed with him and get to know him better, then when we finally do make love, it'll be PHENOMENAL!!
Point is: oral sex is great when (1) you're relaxed and having fun and (2) when you enjoy doing it and you don't feel like it's a requirement or you're being punished or made to do it.
I think that's the lesson that I'm learning in this forum. A lot of the people who are married in this forum (Uncle Ant, Uncle Dan, Girlie) are having fantastic sex with the people they're married to because (1) they love that person very much (2) they're willing to do what they can to make that person happy, and (3) they enjoy doing it.
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